Notice what matters in your relationship
A calm, private way to track the traits that matter to you. Watch them change over time. Talk about what you see.
A self-reflection tool. Not therapy, counselling, or a crisis service.
How it works
Pick traits
Choose from a catalog or add your own. Rate how important each one is to you.
Score them
Take a reading whenever you want. The gauge shows a weighted average of what you value most.
Watch the story
History stays tied to each reading, so later changes to importance don’t rewrite the past.
What you get
Free on your phone
Full tracking, history, and export. No account required. No ads.
Sync & dashboard
Optional cloud account for web access, backup, and sharing.
Share on your terms
Invite a partner or therapist to view a dataset. Revocable anytime.
Optional AI tips
Gentle suggestions grounded in a guidance document you control. Not advice.
Start free
The Android app is free. Advanced features (sync, dashboard, sharing, AI) require a cloud account.